Anonymous asked: i had casual sex with a boy over the course of a month (everytime i was the first that texted) and then i decided i was gonna wait for him to text first for a change and he never did. and it's now over a month later and i'm still hoping to casually run into him again but i never do. at this point, i'm thinking of "accidentally texting him" (he has the same name as my cousin) to start up conversation again. i have no reason to text him otherwise without seeming desperate/clingy. believable? bad?
Personally, I doubt he’d care why you texted him. He doesn’t seem to have any interest in you beyond the sex, and why should he? You don’t seem, at least from what you’ve told me, to have expressed any interest in him besides the text. If you stopped texting him, perhaps he saw it at you merely moving on or becoming uninterested. No real loss for him, it just means he won’t get laid as often by you in particular. He could, hypothetically, have loads of girls he does this with, and losing you is no big deal to him.
But that’s all theory. In practice, I don’t think it matters why you text him. If you want him to be the first to text you, you’ll need to tell him that this is what you want of him; as of now, he has no real reason to text you, because he is assuming that when you want something, you’ll come around for him. If you want to pretend you did it by accident, that’s fine, but I doubt he would even realize why you are going through all that effort.