Anonymous said: So, this isn't a relationship quesiton, not really but can you please try. There's this guy I really really like. I fell for his personality first and then his looks. He wants to talk but for right now I told him we can't until I get over him. How do I get over him completely? I don't want to get over him now and then start liking him again when I talk to him.. Please help me, how can I get over him? :(

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Anonymous said: I'm 23 and currently seeing someone who is 45. I don't mind but my parents definitely would if they found out and I still live with them. He loves me more than any guy ever has and treats me so well. He would give me the world. There's nothing more I could ask of him but do you think I should just not tell my parents for now? He has cirrhosis.

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Anonymous said: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2yrs. He thinks everyone in the world is a piece of shit (including himself) and I like to see the good in people. How can I continue to deal with his pessimism in a healthy way? Its bringing me down

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Anonymous said: Hi! so I've been dating and flirting with this guy. And it seems he likes me, but the thing that kinda bothers me is that he had feeling and talked kinda sexual to my best friend. I told my best friend about this and she got upset, she had a boyfriend when she was talking to him and she still does. I don't know if I should continue this relationship, he's very intimate but he's a nice guy.

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He’s ten years older, but I like him!

I’m 18 and the guy I like is approximately 10 years older than me. I met him through his workplace and over a couple weeks, fell for his personality. He keeps calling me a kiddo/kid though, which always makes me feel as if he’ll never like me and will always see me as a child… I know the age gap is kind of big and he is already working while I’m still in school, but what I’m hoping to pursue in the future is in the same field as him so we do at least have some things in common… In your opinion, do you think it would ever be possible for him to like me back or will he just continue seeing me as a child and I should just move on? And if you were him, would you ever fall for someone who’s 10 years younger or would you see them as a kid?

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Anonymous said: How can I get my boyfriend to stop touching me when he's horny and we're watching stuff on my computer in bed? Not sexually, but he'll tickle me nonstop and touch my chest and ass over my clothing. He never stops, no matter how annoyed I get with him. I tell him to stop clearly, but he makes me feel bad when I get upset. We're 17 but he's twice my twice. He tells me he'll stop but he continues after a few minutes. Please help, thanks :)

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Anonymous said: This is the anon with that boyfriend of 4 years who is cheating on me with the 14 year old. I was all set to break up with him- i'm very tired of feeling like crap all the time and just generally having him in my life. But I just got news that he's going through a very tough time right now, I guess his sister severely beat him but no one will believe him and now he's been admitted to a mental hospital and he says im the only one keeping him alive/sane and i just dont know what to do anymore

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designrevolution:

Courtenay McKay created a series of posters for the Gender Based Violence Prevention Project (GBVPP) at the University of Alberta to spread awareness about rape culture.

The Gender Based Violence Prevention Project is a new project of the Students’ Union that promotes a campus free of gender based violence. Gender Based Violence exists in both visible and invisible ways on our campus and affects the lives of many University students, staff, faculty, and community members. Through education, awareness, and institutional change, we are striving to create a campus free of gender based violence where everyone can feel safe and supported.”

(via dudeimzonedout)

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Anonymous said: Have you ever felt horrible on your birthday? Have you ever spent it alone? Have you ever had a bad one? My 22nd really is sucking hard. I don't know anyone, literally, who has spent their young 20's birthdays alone but here I am.

No, yes, and yes, in that order. I’ve had plenty of bad birthdays. There’s nothing really special for the day, and I much rather enjoy spending them alone. Nothing happened on my past birthday… it was just a day. And that’s okay. You should spend your birthday however you please. If that’s going out to an insane club, go for it. If it’s hanging out with yourself on Netflix, do it. Don’t feel bad about it though. It’s your day to do what you want.

If you’re feeling lonely in general, and you want to change that, that’s all you. You’re the only one who can get out of your house and go meet people and make new friends. I’m not saying that’s going to be easy. In fact, speaking as a 26 year old, meeting people these days is one of the hardest things ever. But it is still possible. You just have to put yourself out there, go to places where people are, and work up the courage to greet stranger. 

But for reals, happy birthday. If nobody else said it to you yet, I’m glad I had the chance. Hey readers, if you’re feeling charitable, feel free to send a message with ridiculous gifs to wish anon a happy birthday. 

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Anonymous said: when I say up a step, I don't mean sex.. I mean foreplay. We haven't done that yet, and I feel like I want to do things with her, but I don't want to try something when she isn't ready, and I can't ask because she is awkward and probably will try change the subject or something and I don't want to push her into anything. Ps i haven't I'm only 17, as is she and we haven't done anything with anybody before expect kiss; so how do I know if she is ready without directly asking?

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Anonymous said: I really want to try dressing up in the bedroom but I don't know if I'm confident enough to do it. Do you have any tips?

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Anonymous said: My mom wants to take my boyfriend shopping for school clothes to the mall with me, and I really want him to go, he wants to go. Buuuuut. I'm self conscience about my sizes. I'm 15 and I wear m-L in shirts, and like 8,& 9 in pants. I'm just so self conscience. Idk what to do 😭

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Anonymous said: if you've hooked up with a guy more than once, but he doesn't really make an effort to text you or hang out outside of parties, can you assume he's not interested in you as anything more than just a hookup?

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