We hooked up! Now what?!?!

I need your advice. So there’s this guy I met at a club a month ago, and we were dancing and stuff. It was all meaningless. We exchanged numbers and talked for a bit but nothing special. Then there was a two day rave and I ran into him. And we were dancing again, kissed all that stuff. But nothing happened.. A couple days ago we decided to go drinking together & we both got really drunk. And I ended up sleeping with him.. Since then he hasn’t texted me since. Was this just a meaningless one night stand or did it really mean something to him?

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Anonymous said: Is it wrong to want someone to look at you in a somewhat "sexual" way, even if you don't want to have a relationship, or sex, with them? Like "I hope he thinks my boobs look nice in this shirt" or something like that, even if you don't want to be intimate with them? I find myself thinking like this often, and it feels fun, but at the same time it could end up hurting someone emotionally, possibly. Does that make any sense? I probably explained that terribly. But yeah. Is that leading someone on?

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5soscrazze said: This guy that goes to a different school than me dmed on Saturday me and got my number. He later that day asked me to go to a haunted trail with him and some friends so I said yes and brought some of my own fiends to be safe. It was fun and he was super nice and he was very cuddly and ended up kissing me. We've talked through snapchat and texting but he's kind of a perv on line. Hes asked me for pictures. I don't know if it Saturday was a onetime thing or not. Should I keep talking/pursuing him?

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Anonymous said: I met a guy on Tinder and we hung out Friday night. That night he invited me to go to the university pool with him and his friends on Sunday and told me he owes me a rain check for hanging out for a longer amount of time (bc he had to go to bed early on Friday). Sunday came around and he never texted me to say when we were going. He seemed really excited to hang out with me again but we haven't talked since! Does he not like me anymore? Should I text him?

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cayb2 said: I've been dating my bf for 6 months but this last month my ex and I have been texting inappropriate things and I want to stop and tell my bf what's happening but he will end things with me if I do that. I might deserve it but I don't want to lose him

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Anonymous said: Same anon as earlier about the 4 year long distance relationship: I understand that he wants to hang out with friends and such, I'm all for that, I don't even mind going a day or so without talking. But.. a week? I feel forgotten. It's not hard to just say hey and check in every couple days, even if it's just for like 5 minutes. Over the years we've argued about it MANY times, and broke up once because of it (he got 'bored' of me) but it just never changes.

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Anonymous said: I'm so afraid my boyfriend likes my best friend :( on his birthday, I went to a little party to celebrate for him. It consisted of me,him, and his family. Well, before we went to go take a walk he slipped and almost called me by my best friends name. He always compares our relationship to my best friends relationship with her boyfriend. He once Said "Why don't you hug me like she hugs him?" It bothers me. I'm so worried 😔

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Anonymous said: How can you tell a relationship is coming to an end

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Anonymous said: Today a guy gave me his number and we've seen each other several times on campus this semester. He is an interesting person and is attractive, but I am still hesitant to pursue or initiate anything. I feel conflicted about texting him, even though I do want to know more about him....what should I do?

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Anonymous said: I'm currently in a new relationship and he makes me happy and this is the first relationship I've been in since an ex of mine who I dated on and off for 4 years and we ended because of school is it normal that i feel weird in this new relationship?

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Anonymous said: my girlfriend and i are on a break right now. i think i might lose her. what should i do?

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Anonymous said: So I like this guy and then he started to make hints that he also liked me so we hung out for a while then he kissed me and then from there we got together but it was never "official"so then he txts me and says he thinks we should end it because he doesn't thing a relationship is good for him but he says he still really likes me and he just dosnt want us to date and us get hurt but that dosnt make since to me and he still keeps asking to hang out and things so I'm just really confused on what to

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Anonymous said: In a long-distance relationship, is it important to try and talk to each other every day? This has been a continuing problem in my relationship- He'll go weeks without talking to me. I've brought it up many times before but it never changes. I don't feel like I'm a priority in his life, when after 4 years, I should be. I've told him to at least tell me if he'll be too busy to talk. But no, he's always out with friends and forgets i exist.

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